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Tuesday, March 08, 2005

On the News (08/03/2005)

Have u guys seen the news today? There was this article abt a guy (Mr. Lee) who jumped down from his HDB flat and later the police found out tt his wife and 2 children were dead in the apartment. I read some of the comments in Straits Times as well as the New Paper. "They were like the perfect family", "Always together", "They should have asked their frenz n relatives for help" etc.

I felt that this world totally sux after reading this article..

First of all, Newpaper talked abt the wife borrowing a few hundred bucks to one of the neighbours a few weeks ago. According to Straits Times, the husband went to one other neighbour to borrow 2000 bucks but was rejected. Reason? They dun know each other well enough. (To be very very truthful, I believe I would have done the same thing if I were in the neighbour's place too)
Would the guy have gone to borrow money from the neighbour if his own frenz n relatives are able to or want to lend him the money? From my experience with my own relatives, I don't tink tt they will fork out money for me if I were in debt. From frenz? It all depends on how close we are and sometimes, the closest frenz may not be able to help u at times of crisis. PLUS, how many of us are really tt close? We may be "close" but when a crisis strikes, can we trust tt "close" fren to stay n help????

Next, "perfect family" and "always together" were used to describe the family/couple. That guy was afraid to tell his wife abt his debt as he was afraid tt she would divorce him. This is wat we call, "happily married"?? Will our "other hlaves" juz leave/divorce us in times of need? Is it just because we r insecure or is it that there is no more trust, love and commitment to talk abt in this world we r living in?
This brings me to one of the past articles abt wives saving their 'si fang qian".. Can we not trust the person who is sleeping next to us to share our woes? Must we take precaution against our so-called "other halves"? is this wat marriage is all abt? It is no better than remaining as frenz. It is no better than living on by urself. U juz can't trust...

Finally, some of the comments cited by Newpaper were sth like "y did the children have to go?". If I were in tt guy's shoes, I tink killing the 2 kids would be the best option I know of. If I can't even borrow a few thousand bucks from my own relatives, can I trust them to take care of my kids? How the hell will my kids live on in this... cruel.. world??? I might as well just take them with me...

Of course, I'm not saying tt committing suicide is the best option.. But to a desperate and cynical man, it is..
Now, to see wat the police discover as they investigate..

The Origin. 3/08/2005 08:20:00 pm

quotes

"You know how when you were a little kid and you believed in fairy tales, that fantasy of what your life would be, white dress, prince charming who would carry you away to a castle on a hill. You would lie in bed at night and close your eyes and you had complete and utter faith. Santa Claus, the Tooth Fairy, Prince Charming, they were so close you could taste them, but eventually you grow up, one day you open your eyes and the fairy tale disappears. Most people turn to the things and people they can trust. But the thing is its hard to let go of that fairy tale entirely cause almost everyone has that smallest bit of hope, of faith, that one day they will open their eyes and it will come true." - Dr. Meredith Grey from Grey's Anatomy

'How happy is the little Stone
That rambles in the Road alone,
And doesn't care about Careers
And Exigencies never fears-
Whose Coat of elemental Brown
A passing Universe put on,
And independent as the Sun
Associates or glows alone,
Fulfilling absolute Decree
In casual simplicity-' - How happy is the little Stone by Emily Dickinson

'This is your last chance.
After this, there is no turning back.
You take the blue pill - the story ends, you wake up in your bed and believe whatever you want to believe.
You take the red pill - you stay in Wonderland and I show you how deep the rabbit-hole goes.' - Morpheus, The Matrix

'The grass is always greener on the other side of the fence.
Not because you'll get it, but because you're doomed not to want it if you do.' - Unknown

'There are plenty of people with good intentions who take the wrong actions in the end' - Gundam Seed Destiny

'Life is no straight and easy corridor along
which we must seek our way,
lost and confused, now and again
checked in a blind alley.

But always, if we have faith,
a door will open for us,
not perhaps one that we ourselves
would ever have thought of,
but one that will ultimately
prove good for us.' - A.J.Cronin

"Every life has one true-love snapshot
Strangers are just family you have yet to come to know
No life is a waste.
The only time we waste is the time we spend thinking we are alone"

"A man can endure alot if he still has hope." - Clyde T. Ellis

" 'Appreciate It.' 2 simple words. A life span of gratitude." - Cinderella Man

"A boxer enters the ring alone. If knocked down, he alone could pick himself up and keep the fight going." - Cinderella Man

"You gain strength, courage and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear in the face. You must do the thing you think you cannot do." - Eleanor Roosevelt

"Jame J. Braddock: I know this isn't what you wanted. But I can't win if you're not behind me.
Mae: I'm always behind you."

"People die in fairy tales all the time." - Max Baer, Cinderella Man

"Maybe sometimes people need to see someone do it so they can do it." - Father Rorick, Cinderella Man

"You always got ot figure you're not the best man in the world, there might be somebody better. That's the way it was. That's the way boxing is. The champion don't always stand up. There's always somebody coming up to take him. That's a part of life." - Jame J. Braddock

"If either man falls through weakness or otherwise, he must get up unassisted" - The Queensbury Rules, No. 4

"All men have fears, but the brave put down their fears and go forward, sometimes to death, but always to victory" - Motto of the King's Guard in Ancient Greece

"With each passing day in a good marriage, the love for your spouse grow stronger than the day before" - Cinderella Man

"I take responsibility" - President George W. Bush

"Sow a Thought, and you reap an Act;
Sow an Act, and you reap a Habit;
Sow a Habit, and you sow a Character;
Sow a Character, and you reap a Destiny." - Samuel Smiles

"Our doubts are traitors,
And make us lose the good we oft might win
By fearing to attempt - Shakespeare in Measure of Measure

"What does your heart tell you?" - Aragorn, LOTR

"To an outstretched hand we shall respond with an olive branch, but we shall fight fire with the harshest fire ever." - Israeli PM Ariel Sharon

"To deny our own impulses is to deny the very thing that makes us human. " - The Matrix

"Be without fear in the face of your enemies. Be brave and upright that God may love thee. Speak the truth, always, even if it leads to your death. Safeguard the helpless and do no wrong. That is your oath." - Balian of Ibelin, Kingdom of Heaven

"You never really understand a person until you consider things from his point of view... Until you climb inside of his skin and walk around in it." - Atticus Finch, To Kill A Mockingbird

"It is not our abilities that show what we truly are... it is our choices." - Dumbledore, Harry Potter

"Do not be too eager to deal out death in judgment. Even the very wise cannot see all ends." - Gandalf, LOTR

"Ohana means family, family means nobody gets left behind. Or forgotten." - Lilo & Stitch

"Your heart is free. Have the courage to follow it." - Malcolm Wallace, Braveheart

"Every man dies, not every man really lives." - William Wallace, Braveheart

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