Saturday, January 27, 2007
I was in school this morning for the Math/Physics remedial lessons. For a group of us, it was a reality check saying, "So what if you got 4.5 cap?" This is because of the many questions we didn't know nor understand, the chinese scholars were able to comprehend and at times, corrected the tutor for mistakes. I admit that I have never had any close interactions with them and this (and also yesterday's french lesson) was my first up-close learning experience with them in the same class. To speak the truth, I have developed a sense of respect for them. This was driven from their willingness and guts to try even though they may not be correct (as in speaking during french lesson), and also their far-reaching knowledge.
Lessons ended with a demoralising beat and caused us to walk to the bus stop in a daze. I went to Macdonalds and so happened to meet some USP-ians who were having lunch there too. Damn lucky of me to manage to find lunch buddies on a Saturday afternoon in school. There was a little talk about how a guy's parents visit him frequently in hostel and they having "private sessions" every once a week. I thought it is amazing and nice. Made me wonder about my family. I will say that my parents care about me deeply. However, my family belongs to the category of being low-maintenance. There are many examples of such.
My family does not wait for one another to have dinner together. On normal days, we eat our dinner individually as and when it has been cooked, and when we feel hungry. It is only on Sunday when we sit down and eat as a family but this is subjected to whether we have our individual activities. In other words, unlike some people, Sunday is not equal to family day. Also, we were having dinner earlier at Bt Panjang Plaza. My food came later than my parents' ones and they were almost done by the time I started. In the end, they left after they were done and went shopping. Leaving me alone on the table to eat. It is nothing. It is just us.
Furthermore, I can stay home all day and speak less than 10 sentences to any single person in my family. We don't sit around and watch the same show. In fact, my dad seldom watch tv with the rest of us cuz he is into channel surfing.
There are many more instances but i shall stop here... haha... Back to work... or maybe sleep..
The Origin. 1/27/2007 11:25:00 pm