Thursday, September 13, 2007
Ok. I do not usually ride on to the "current hot topic" and discuss about it on my blog but I found this a rather 'inspiring' (as used by the person who informed me about it) article. Just a brief low down, this article, "
singapore teacher removes coming out blog under ministry pressure" described MOE's reaction regarding Otto Fong's blog entry on himself being a gay. Basically, MOE requested that he take down the blog entry, which he did. To some extent, I feel that given the current environment we are in today, it was the only right thing that MOE should do given that they knew about the entry. It is something that they ought to do given their position and the direction they are coming from. And given the fact that they did not fire Mr. Fong, it is pretty obvious that they are being as neutral as they possibly can. (Although it could be argued that they are in a fix cuz if they were to fire Mr. Otto, the issue will be even more blown up) However, that is not the issue I am concerned with here. (go to page 2 of the linked article)
Personally, I found that this blog entry is inspiring in that it is as much about asking people to accept and be brave about their differences as it is about his journey towards opening up about his sexuality. It is not just about secretly continuing your 'very different' characters, way of thinking or habits but more of showing to the world who you are. It is having the guts to stand up and shout, "I am different!" At this point, I tend to oppose a little as to Mr. Fong's last para about hoping his friends would remember who he is and accept him. I feel that after declaring that you are different, it is a test of true commitment, friendship and whatever related. It is actually to see who value you enough to overstep their personal limits (of acceptance) and accept you for who you are. It would of course be great if they all do but if they don't, it is only sad that one has wasted their time getting to know people who do not value them. Otherwise, there is essentially nothing to be sad about.
Lastly, there is this thing about the homosexual agenda is to make the whole world homosexual. I have only one explanation for that. They, who said that, are the people who may have felt feelings for people of the same sex but did not have the courage to be different.
The Origin. 9/13/2007 09:17:00 pm