Friday, February 20, 2009
I wonder how can you actually know somebody. People change. A long-time childhood friend is no longer the boy/girl whom you used to know. A friend you meet in university may have changed a lot since he/she was in secondary school. I think one can never use the words 'knowing somebody' for all time. The most we can say is "i knew him/her" or "I now know him/her".
This being said, of course it is not always important to be able to know so much about another person. However, if you should get to know somebody special, would it be better to know him/her sooner or later? (let's imagine of course that you have a choice in this) Getting to know later may mean that you do not know much about his/her past. Then again, it is only the "now" that matters and not the past. On the other hand, getting to know sooner may also mean that change will happen and the change might bring the two of you further apart rather than together. I guess then the only thing one can wish for here is to meet at the right time and hope for the best.
The Origin. 2/20/2009 05:41:00 am